女儿20万跨海婚礼计划遭拒 与母联手冷战 美国父亲诉苦
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从美国纽约横跨太平洋后到南半球的新西兰结婚?这的确是一个疯狂的梦想,英国《独立报》报导,一名美国男子在Reddit
以“我是浑蛋吗”( Am I The
Asshole?)为标发文诉苦,指称婚期将近的女儿向他提出要在新西兰举行婚礼,而粗估费用的20万美元(约640万元台币)恐怕是要他埋单。
该名父亲表示:“如果女儿不能自己支付目的地婚礼的费用,那么她就不应该举办这个目的地的婚礼”。但在他拒绝为这场跨太平洋的婚礼埋单后,妻女竟以冷战回应他的“无情”,男子觉得女儿要求太多,因为不单单是这20万美元,若还要再估算请客人来的费用,恐怕不只这个数目。
原PO拒绝的原因还包括,妻子以为可以负担得起的跨海婚礼,在他的眼中是一场没有什么意义的炫富举动。但妻女的冷战让他相当苦恼,于是上网发问网友,究竟该如何决定?
一名网友回应原PO,建议或许直接告诉妻子一个能心甘情愿提供的金额数字,并且坚不让步,这样的方式或许能让冷战和缓下来。也有人认为,应该先得到妻子的认同,希望她能想想两人退休的储蓄,用在这个只有开心一下子的婚礼上,到底值不值得。
在网友众多建议下,该名苦恼的父亲再次更新文章表示,已开始询问在纽约办婚礼的价格,他也表示,已告诉妻女,要将这笔钱拿来买房或只是一场婚礼的费用,就在她们的一念之间。
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